Namaste!

What you are about to read is an invitation from someone who has never seen the commercial side of tantra appealing and equally finds, the delusion, the pretence carried out by so called spiritual tantric healers, actually very ugly. The whole tantric ticket- kundalini wakening and enlightenment, perfect lovers, orgasm from the heart, cosmic orgasms, sexual dysfunction, healing, luminous sex, thanking the goddess, worship shiva, its all too complicated, too messy, too choreographed. Those who care to read traditional tantra texts will recognise this as being the perfect play of Maya. Is safe to say that most western tantric practices in the west are nothing more than delusion sold by delusion prom puppets of Maya.

The bottom line is simple: anyone who is to find Happiness Love outside self. Anyone who believes in duality self and the other, anyone who believes that tantra is concerned with body, sex, finding partners heal erections, control the mind,  balance mind body, better sexuality, and so forward is in some kind of strange ride. To confuse this blatant commercialisation of spiritualism with Traditional Tantra only indicates that Tantra has now served to legitimise all that is socially and culturally frown upon, forbidden or criticised. So affairs, group sex, paid masturbation, polygamy, multiple partners, and the exploitation of less than informed public seems to be acceptable so long as it is sold as tantric. Taken that Lord Shiva Lord Ganesha are the patrons of Tantra and given that these are Hindu Gods, and given that according to the British Empire invention Hinduism is a religion we must say that tantra is the only religion, outside Christianity that can openly be defiled without impunity. Not even Christianity would tolerate anyone to equate Virgin Mary or the Pope and its Vatican as whores, prostitutes in their sanctified brothel . AH! But they do not talk about Lingam and Yoni do they. Sure. When in Rome do it as the Romans, after all we are talking about Tantra been practised in the west.

Whether practised in the West or not Tantra either is or is not. If those who offer and those who procure Tantra Practices are not interested in the SPIRITUALITY and the ENQUIRY of FREEDOM as in SELF DISCOVERY they can only be outside the Tantra frying pan into the fire of westernised mundane sex driven minds. No matter what people do in the name of Tantra the good thing is Tantra will always remain Tantra and will always serve those who are genuine with their Enquiry.

I answer to the name of Shakti Verah and I invite you to WAKE UP from this Tantric healing, this sweet sleep walk around westernised tantric, and  tantric healing wonderland. Tantra Massage and tantra erotic massage have been called Tantra due to their Tantra Spiritual Framework of Understanding. Without the Spiritual Framework these massages are of very little or no value at all. These massages have a skill of their own and the message about them is only one: Self Awareness-which of course requires a practitioner who is Self Aware. (Sort of the ridiculous warning on a pack of peanuts. Warning this packet contain peanuts). Self awareness requires self awareness.

These are not a combination of props, wonder wands goddesses and gods empowered by the mystic world, one they invented for themselves, to heal or empower erections, ejaculations, female orgasms, raise kundalini and improve sexuality and sex life, bring happiness to your heart, make you a better PERSON (?). Brief Note: tantra and Person are diametrically opposed.

This focus on the body the obsession about sex and sexuality has NOTHING to do with Traditional Tantra Teachings. As far as the tantra massages are concerned Andro Rothe, father of tantra erotic massage and tantra massage, developed these amazing massages with sole purpose of awareness and Discovery. I know this because I was trained by Val, teacher and Andro's partner,  Diamond Lotus Berlin. Brief note: there is nothing in need of discovering or teaching in sex. Nature has done all the teaching that is needed, little ants got it, as for million of years men, who went from hiding in caves to seat on the walking on the noon have known it for all time years too.  Drop the commercialisation of sex and memories will get refreshed about this simple truth, no human being can defeat nature. You label it differently, paid unpaid, one night stand, tantric, but its all the same. Tantra is not to make this play of hypocrisy better. Drop the game then tantra will be known. Osho said that 'the very perversion comes from the prohibition of sex, let it happen, remove shame guilty fear and it will naturally disappear'. He did not promote anything he simply state the truth explorers of other planets engineers of great buildings forgot about it.

"My sex and my dogs sex is the same. Only I do it in a nice apartment and my dog does it on the street" (sitation to be added soon) . Sex is sex and Tantra is not concerned with it.


Given that Andro is not Indian and his massages did not come from "India" as many claim to have come from, lets for a moment suppose that Andro or Val got it wrong, when stating that 'Tantra is only concerned with Spirituality and in Spirituality their is only the SELF'. IT WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN very difficult to prove them right.

The fakes love to make tantra all very secretive but Traditional Tantra texts and teaching are widely available on the net in form of discourses and books. I AM THAT by Sri Nisargardatta Maharaj is one such unmissable book to read. For those who are not keen on reading U tube offers many free discourses on Self, Happiness, Spirituality, Enlightenment, and, what exactly kundalini and sex represents in the scale of Traditional tantra.  Mooji say 'Kundalini is not needed. Forget about it. Find out who you are' On sex Sadhguro sais " its limited", if you make the "limited unlimited you will suffer".

Osho explained why he addressed the two biggest taboos in western culture "sex and death" so that people 'could raise from fear of sex and fear of dead, so that people could Then raise to their eternity'.  The western media jumped to portray Osho as 'sex guru' when in fact Osho has never promoted sex.  Furthermore in the book of secrets OSHO also pointed that "sex and spirituality are diametrically opposed", "sex must pass " and as sex needs the 'other' sex is therefore "ugly", no one should use the other as an object. When I point this out some almost pass out in shock, or go to deep state of doubt about my Tantra Credentials.

If Tantra does not shake the dust out of sweetness seeking eyes, then what is Tantra Teachings for?  Wake up; Realise its a dream and think about it. Wanting a partner for sex, happiness, pleasure its wanting the other for whatever good they are able to provide, or even better, whatever it can be gotten out of their neediness, naivety, stupidity, venerability, trust, game, dream.

The reality is no one wants another person, they want someone like themselves, mind like, same interests, good sense of humour. So "when I rob the gullible one of their favourite role in the play of deceptions I am not going to encounter resistance or drama. They can actually laugh, and smile, gaze into my eyes and say: take even more, I am tantric lover, I am unconditional love, take whatever you want, use me, and damp me, no attachments. Because attachment is ego, but looking for someone to attach the ego to its not ego its 'tantric love'!

This is the tantric humour needed for the tantric joy and bliss. 'the honey with no pot' in other words life without maturity and responsibility. Only the mind makes the distinction between honey and pot- to find that out for yourself, is important to stop this mantra. Most people want someone who is exactly their shadow- but in skirts,  in suits, in trousers and in the tantric wonderland men who can become like women soft from the heart. Men play the game, they know its bed time and when fun is over: NO ATTACHMENT R-E-M-E-M-B-E-R ?!

NEXT..., or time to once again, process deep rooted issues with more potent practices. This is how in Tantric wonderland dreamers go from small ride to big rides, then massive rides. Each time believing they are closer to finding their god, which is to find their perfect lover, one with no more issues in need of solving, one who has cleared all their chakras, one who has learned from all other mistakes, one who has done the three workshop levels plus the advanced level on how to get your perfect tantric partner and keep it...Tantric Dream is actually the biggest nightmare of the so called spiritual world!

Is important to note, and you see (u tub) read (osho book of secrets) for yourselves that Tantra or Enlightenment masters or masters of TRUTH FREEDOM are not against sex nor are they against beings with a Being (being not seeking) with The One they cannot live without, (without not as a need, but as in the simplicity of being). All they are saying is that sex is in the ambit of the body, its limited. And when "you make the limited unlimited you great falsehoods" Sadhguru on U tube. Spirituality SELF Enlightenment is about the unlimited.  Part of Wake up from the tantric dream is that you find out things for your own self; You tub it.

I advice Mooji's Discourses or Sadhguru discourses, Ceser discourses and OSHO discourses and you will hear these master point out that Happiness, Love cannot be found. They say YOU ARE ALREADY LOVE YOU ARE ALREADY HAPPINESS YOU ARE ALREADY ENLIGHTENED, just wake up from the belief that you are to find WHAT you Are outside your self. With the "other" in shape of "ideal tantric partner", "lover", "healer", "tantric god goddess secret portions, level 1-2-3 of tantric chakra balance, spiritual blockages therapy, all you will find is death. Mooji say 'you cannot be blocked. You are not an artery'.

The whole delicious love offered out there, by sleep walking advocates of tantric paths, tantric 'enlightenment' who are just as death as death itself, its actually a nightmare. Is safe to say that the only erection these 'masters' of all deceptions are capable of giving its the closing balance on their bank accounts.  With Tantric for partners the balance raises even higher and faster.

I would't which to desappoint anyone who is having a good time in such wonderful tantric theme park. But I don't thing to be inappropriate if the lights are turned up a bit on this growing and proliferating deceit so that the truth can show for itself.

Tantric spiritualits love to go on about the 'real' and the [genu wine]. They will give you everything that is 'Real' from India of course;  no address no references. This is real reality some kind of mountain guru who has NEVER been seen by anyone before, passed the secret directly to a passing foreigner who went to India to contemplate the moon and got the powers of a spiritual secret handed over on a plater to take to the west sell it on the condition that the guru's name and address is mentioned as "secret practices". Tantra is no secret practice, ( its all on the net!) Wake up! Its all said on the net! In books, in Satsangs and in Intensives too.

But why tell everyone what their "reality" is all "about" and how a mere mortal can make it better and really real for you? Do they actually know what they are pointing to? Have they touched REALITY for themselves?  Is that the sort of reality they can put into drunken infusing Ajana voices? Lets simplify, Anyone capable of describing what SELF, REALITY, TRUTH, ENLIGHTENMENT, IS, have not got a clue. They have not touched it. Not even the Great SAGES have defined reality, Self in the way many dream leader have been able to.

These deluded army of Maya have developed a sophisticated world of mannerisms, Tantra language they utter with no Understanding. They have perfected the all play with props and costumes to the point of creating a "Tantric" ego fuelled reality for themselves. So real, they believe it to be the 'truth'. Such reality is nothing more than performance.

The hottest tickets are the 'tantric gaze', 'the tantric voices', tone tunes accentuation of god / goddess, shiva/shakti kundalini vajra voices'. If you have not come across such voices yet, I will try to describe it. Half awaken, half drunken, hangover delusional state of bliss which goes down like perfume, and tastes like honey without the pot, feels like the dance without the music, but its all meaningless.

The reality is REALITY IS Incommunicable. What words can do or say is worthless for the purpose of Reality. I take Reality to be What arises from Wisdom and Consciousness. Words are "delicious" and even as delicious as the "tantras" can be- but, words are poison gases, toxins and mere investitures of the mind. For centuries the mind has been the very Tantra's battleground, a war to be won over, not with sex made better but with the State Of No mind. IN other words Sex , kundalini, perfect lover tantric partner the goddess magic on the lingam can never purify the mind. Not that sex is dirty sinful. Its because the place of Self gives no access to anyone else apart form Self and the Self alone. Alone means ALONE. In traditional Tantra LESS. IS. MORE.

Tantric healer and goddesses go on about controlling the mind. Mind is a concept, doesn't exist. What exists is unreal consciousness which identifies itself with a particular body, and that appears to exist only in the state of waking and dreaming, and disappears in the deep sleep. This is limited distorted consciousness which stands in the way of our knowing ourselves as we really are. (Michael James, 2007, e-book).

Our believe and attachment to the body give us the false impression that their is a mind and a body. The body is always changing; as energy is always in permanent flow. The mind many tantric goddesses and gods "masters" claim to be able to balance,  unblock, harmonise have never been able to present a single mind out for anyone to see.  Not on a platter, not on a coconut ball, banana leaf, or goddess's temple. Be bold, do ask the goddess or the god whose skills are to balance and unblock minds to produce at the least the mind they are about to balance and unblock.

Words will be what they will be able to produce. Words a product of their own delusional mind.  The use of familiar words and words, can make any dream seeker bounce back to an even deeper state of sleep walking, in and out into the misery created and sold by the mind. The only reality to this is that the tan-tricks get paid to have this delusional mind, named, labelled, pathologised, personalised, institutionalised as level 1-2-3 and improved tantric formulas are also available for the next blockage ahead.  Tantra its being dispensed like pills.  Again, Mooji says (U tub) 'you are not an artery you cannot be blocked, forget about all that.

Mind is like gas. When comes to explosive staff such as mind there is no harmonising. In such case we need to get to the source of mind cut it off and the threat is over.

Due to the nature of the "mind" flammable and unstable delusional and the nature of body transient and walking to the grave Tantra massage and Tantra erotic Massage are NOT CONCERNED with Neither the mind Nor the body.  Through the body a tantra massage a tantra erotic massage is pointing you to something else, which is neither the mind nor the body. The massage session is that manual on how and when to use it when the mind crops up with the mind staff, made out of illusions, ideas, believes, concepts, attachments, fears, dreams, desires, loneliness, insecurities, longings, imperfections, diseases, phew! you name it, its all mind.

Tantra massages and Erotic Massages are based in a very simple principle. The giver gives the massage. The receiver receives the massage. THEN the massage and its non mental or cognitive interpretation reveal itself spontaneously. What it is its for the receiver to explain. If true it will not be explained. EVER. B-e-c-a-u-s-e No One can explain, not even the mildest encounter with SELF. Words or concept its all meaningless.

Tantra massages are only pointers towards the "place" of Self. Self is not a place. Self is. So hard is to convey through language.

Tantra Massage and Erotic massage is about "how" based on Knowing. To know is to experience. The wake up call I (a complete NON-ENLIGHTENED tantra practitioner) am proposing is very simple. When comes to your TRUTH Stop asking other people, stop seeking amongst 'spiritual scientists', 'spiritual masters and mystics', 'gods and goddesses', 'professors of engineered enlightenment' , and all other mere mortal (do please including me in these lot), about stuff which has nothing to do neither with mind nor the other, neither knowledge nor second hand experiences. Their Ego centred agendas prevent these growing army of tantrics from realising that unlike enlightenment they claim to have, and unlike the whole mystic powers they claim to be given they are effectively dead walking to the grave. As such they have more mind, more delusion than anyone else in this dream, and no Life to share with anyone. (Please exclude me from these lot on the premises that I stick to the Traditional Tantra Teachings: I am not the doer of your pleasures, miseries, loves and hates, "find out for yourself". "Find out who you are".  I am only qualified and skilled to give you a massage You and you alone have the key to you. The key is your own Wisdom. It comes from silence, stillness an darkness, not action sex spiritual and otherwise.

Sri Nisargadatta (ibid) says that those who look for Wisdom become Gurus, those who look for action become action man/woman. People go to a Tantric goddess with a problem. Anyone who comes up with an answer to what has no verbal expression are all deceivers. Tantra Massage is not like the pill which works for millions in the same way. In Tantra the individual is all that there is. John's tantra experiences are total "Mind Fuck" for Peter. Peter's and John's are worlds apart apart from Mary's mind or consciousness. (Mind fuck- Fritz Perls, the founder of Gestalt Therapy uses the term to indicate computerising rationalising what is to be a simple account of one's experience.)

People love passing their responsibility to others. The moment anyone asks someone else to give  the answer to what only SELF can know have effectively refused to take upon responsibility, and rejected maturity.  The very question 'is Tantra massage good for the experience I had three years ago with a goddess...' is a good example.

Questions only lead to more questions. Pick the work "experience" from any tantra question and its very simple to see that the answer is in the question. People cannot tell you about your experience. Tantra massage and Tantra is not a game of images playing in front of the mirror. It is the mirror- one that has to be first broken and only then polished.

MIND equals to questions and answers. Experience equals to silence and attention rested on the what is perceived to be right here and now. Want help with discovery of Self, Ask yourself and contemplate on "who am I ", as others will only lead you to confusion. ordinary others are as mislead, as confused, as ignorant as anyone else. If this so called tantric sexual sexual sexual sex sex sex healer know anything its mostly likely to be about their own delusions, fears and fantasies. Most don't even know how delusional they are. A prediction, (you are going to feel this or the other) an expectation (you will have a bigger erection and a mind blowing orgasm) are limitations. Tantra is about the Unlimited, the Unfolding, the Knowing in the Here and the Now.

Wake up: Prediction comes from an ugly place. Place of vanity and ego (i am a goddess) greed and exploitation (put the label tantric on any lousy Swedish massage and you can treble in price) Is actually very easy to spot the fakes- by limiting a tantra massage experience to the penis and sexuality only shows complete luck of skill and of no Tantra understanding. Once you investigate for yourself, you will discover that just by what these opportunists and delusional dreamers say you will know that 99.9% of the so called tantra Gods and Goddesses are totally unskilled or openly exploitative of people's fears and insecurities. We all have insecurities. The job of a true Tantra practitioner is to point to the root. You are the root, you are the solution. Its all delusion. Now let it go. People's expectations are been played at. The suffering goes on unnecessarily and here is why:

people do not wan to mature and they hide their immaturity behind Expectation. They don't want to know the truth, they don't want easy and immediate solutions. They want a dysfunction so they can justify the way in which they resolve their sexual anxieties. Expectation is the product of fear, ignorance and the lack of Maturity. Drop the mind that tells you you have a dysfunction and now observe what else is possible. People don't want to know. They want Tantra to stop being tantra and transmute into their obsessions and mind made "problem."

Osho said and nature has proven this right, 'SEX MUST PASS'. He says in Book of Secrets that, 'at the age of 43 sex must pass'.  Men wake up, If surgery and Viagra can't fix it how would a massage cure it? Men know this by they rather go with lie than Mature or take the stand that their sexuality is no one's business. If the partner cannot respect the fact her or his partner enjoy a massage then their limitation is the problem. 'One likes to live in a prison, the other loves being the prison warden- Osho (ibid). Solution? An illness, a dysfunction, an imbalances, a blockages is invented nursed for the greater good: keeps al nice an knit in the wonderland of deceit and delusions.  No one wants Tantra, they want an excuse. Tantra calls for maturity, who wants that?! No one. All to scared to let go of mental shields and shackles and their imaginary truth.

To mature is to Know one's Self. Maturity is only "reached when nothing external is of any value". Sri Naharaj 1973. The problem with western mind is that they believe that there is nothing else beyond sex. Traditional Tantra say: YES THERE IS. There is YOU. 'Find out who you are'- Nisargardatta.


You may ask- If tantra is not about relaxing or about controlling ejaculation not even controlling the mind what are these tantra massages good for?
A massage is a massage. I repeat this Brutal Truth: a massage is a massage. No more no less. No promises, no expectations, no chats. In years of experience I can safely say that 99.9% of all that is said prior to a Tantra massage Tantra Erotic Massage session is "mind fuck" (ibid). Such chats are ego talking and nothing else. The outcome of the massage is for you and you alone to find out for yourself.

As a giver and skilled tantra practitioner I will simply point at what is, that, it is, that you think to be, or you think not to be BASED on your own accounts in whatever way words sounds gestures you find more adequate to convey the incommunicable. You are the one to confirm it. Ninety nine percent will describe the outcome of a massage session as a relaxation they have never had in their lives. PROBLEM: Here we do not do relaxation, we do not do emptying of testicles in the sense that westernised minds take it as being the act of getting the bad energy out (what bad energy? ), no the impurity (what impurity?) coming out and the Victorian horror going crazy in one go. How can intelligent people believe in such horror and are seated comfortable in such ugliness?

Take one moment and think. IF its impurity what is to be released why wanting a woman, another being to take that from you. Is this what you do to the woman you love, the sole mates you die for? is this how you treat a fellow being? Is this the spirituality you search in Tantra treat like a human being like a cesspit of your impurities?  So messed up  is the westernised mind, full of double standards, meaningless words, fullish ideas, rotten believes, clichés they have never taken a moment to ponder. Traditional Tantra shows this ugliness into the mirror and Tantras we the ones to be labelled by the British empire as being "promiscuous, and reminiscent of a primitive savage society" (citation to be added soon). Today in this modern society of pornography escorts brothels sex slaves tantra is a forbidden word in many directories and mainstream advertising forums.

My role as a Tantra practitioner is not that of a human site to damp highly toxic and spiritually blocking material. My role is to help you Think!  Think, You have "relieved the bad energy" a million of times with women you loved, the ones you did not give a shit, the long term, the short term, the casual, and the ones you paid for, the ones you managed for free this all lot is not a Tantra concern but a point must be made. After all this "cleansing" and "purification" in no occasion did you feel what is present right now. So what is present? Forget stuff out there in your attic-mind and stick to WHAT IS PRESENT. Hopefully the mind will once again step aside and allow the experience in the here and now be reveal for itself. I point out to what is present for right here and right now. From the experience right here and right now there are NEVER any impurities bad energy nothing to empty, their is no other to be used as an object. Tantra is a beauty ugliness cannot penetrate not even by the strongest of minds.

Again "Mind [is] a symptom of ignorance". Mind does not exist, therefore , it cannot be relaxed, balanced. No one wants their mind relaxed or balanced we want to get ride and done with it once for all. The 'broken mirror' I mentioned are pieces of the false self, the negativity we take to be Self . One encounters or discovers these pieces to be all bitter sweet fruits of imagination. Once done and dusted with that we then "see" SELF. Self is a serious spiritual journey but Most Westernised Minds want to stay at the pleasure. Then. stay.at. the. pleasure. NO. PROBLEM.

BUT whatever The Plan you have decided for, the limitation you have set about for yourself, take responsibility of your dream and be happy about it. It can only happen if you step out the dream by voraciously dropping the belief that other's are the tellers of your fortunes, the doers of your pleasures, the key of your well-being, the healers of your feelings, and emotions, the magic of all your fantasies come through, the giver of relaxation mind & body balance. Then you will assume that this whole life is nothing more than pure nonsense, but is one that you like and enjoy. Don't pass this responsibility to someone else. Don't blame poor health and dysfunctions for it either. Those who want tantra massage for the sake of experiencing a tantra massage be honest with that, drop the expectations, the "mind-fuck" (ibid) and experience a tantra massage, because tantra massage will not change its principles and spiritual framework for you. Tantra is.

Tantra has its own "magic". I too decided on tantra training with Diamond Lotus with intention of diversifying the business. One massage and my whole 'life' transformed and it has nothing to do with business or what the dream likes the dream to dream about. I had a rude awakening. for this reason I invite you to wake up. Be in the dream if you want, but know you are dreaming.

Should you wish to have a Tantra Massage Diamond Lotus Method you may chose to call Shakti Verah or fill out the form. REMEMBER Shakti is no Goddess and no mystic. She has never been part of the commercial tantric movement. Shakti's only interest is to point you to the One and Only One. Shakti herself had her first glimpse through a Tantra massage.

To be the Bliss and the Happiness Love you already are you need to found that out for your own self. Far Direct experience participate in an Enlightenment Intensive or Satsang with Masters/Gurus who speak with absolute normal voices and no longer lose the tree for the forest.

Enlighten Beings are easy to spot. There is simplicity a clarity about them. They don't wear masks, their credential easily point to and refer to known and traceable masters gurus sages. Only those under the spell and hypnosis of ego can't see how ugly and ridiculous the whole tantric play looks like. Thank you for your attention.

Shakti Verah


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